What to Know About Threesomes

3some Information And What To Know

If you and your sexual partner are looking for a way to spice up your sex life, try a threesome! With a little bit of help you can learn how to introduce the subject to your partner and that third person. By following a few rules that the two of you make together you may find yourself enjoying threesomes more frequently than you ever thought possible.

Don’t Get Excited

Some things to keep in mind include the following. Do not talk too much about another woman or man. If you do you may make your partner feel badly, as if they are not good enough. Do not act overly excited about the idea of having a threesome but instead act like it is an everyday occurrence.

Again, you do not want to leave your partner with feelings of resentment or feeling as though he or she is not good enough for you.

Talk But Be Respectful

Feel free to openly and honestly discuss your ideas for the perfect threesome but also be sure and listen to your partner’s needs and wants. Most importantly practice safe sex. Use condoms, especially with the third party and make sure that he or she is aware that you will be practicing safe sex during the experience.

You may want to make a few rules. Some things to consider include thoughts such as kissing with the third person or intercourse. These are two things that are very personal between lovers and may or may not be okay with your lover.

Finding The Third Person

You might be wondering how you go about asking a third party to join in your sex-capades with your partner. There are a few ways you can go about doing this. One way is to let the woman initiate a relationship with another woman.

Women are very good at becoming comfortable quickly with one another and they may be able to turn the conversation into sex, two women kissing, fondling each other, and so on, quicker than a man can.

Dating Websites

Alternatively you might consider the use of a dating site to seek out a third partner. There are both local and Internet sites that you can become members of to find a partner. Most importantly you must both agree on the partner that you choose.

While it is true that a threesome cannot repair a damaged relationship, it can spice up an otherwise hum-drum routine sex life. The real trick to keeping it from causing damage to the relationship is to keep the threesome strictly about sex.

Keep It a Sex Only Relationship

Do not become involved in a personal relationship with the third party. Becoming personally involved can cause resentments to build up and can cause potential damage to the relationship. If having a threesome is on your bucket list of things to do, by all means, have fun and do it. Just follow a few simple rules for safety of both yourself and your relationship.

Throw caution to the wind, relax and have a wild and crazy night of passion that is sure to be orgasmic and unforgettable. And remember to help prevent any resentment from building up between you and your partner, do not become personally involved with the third party.