Why We Love Having Three Ways With Men And Women

Our Three Way Story

We are Ben and Vicki and we have been married for the past ten years. Our relationship is a bit untraditional. From the start, we knew that in order to make this work, we would need to do something a little bit different.

We love each other to death, but our love is not something that we could keep to ourselves. One thing that many of our friends and family members don’t know about us is that we love to have threesomes.

This is a taboo subject with many people, we know. We have not told most of the people we know although there are a few people we know who have been interested in joining in.

Sometimes we find other spouses who will take turns and other times it might be a new acquaintance. Either way, it is a great experience that we enjoy doing together.

So, maybe we should start from the beginning of it. When we met, we were both wild and liked to have fun. Vicki had done some experimenting with other girls in her dorm room as well as slept around a bit with some of the other guys.

While some people might find this weird or a turnoff, I found it really hot and I think it was one of the things that drew me to her the most. I wasn’t so chaste myself and we quickly figured out that we would have a very different relationship.

Less Than a Year Into Our Marriage

We were probably married for less than a year before we started to bring up the idea of having a three-way.

It was never about Vickie not satisfying me in bed, but there is nothing like the rush of finding someone else to bring into bed with your spouse that can get the hormones running high.

For our first time, we went with someone we knew. I had a friend from college who had been interested in Vickie for a long time and we approached him about the idea.

It was a little nerve wracking the first time, wondering how someone is going to react to your request, but over time you learn a bit more about who you can ask and who will be completely turned away.

The experience was much better than I would ever imagine. Some guys would feel self-conscious about sharing their wife with another man, but I couldn’t think of something that is more attractive.

Watching the two of them go together in our home, and knowing that I would soon be able to join in, is the most erotic experience of our marriage.

I Enjoyed It More Than Her

After the first time was done, Vickie and I sat down to talk about the experience. She was worried that I would have all the male insecurities about sharing her, but was pleasantly surprised that I had enjoyed the experience, perhaps more than she had.

She became excited to sit in the passenger seat the next time and see what it was like from my point of view.

Vickie called a few of her old friends and while there were a few more rejections initially on that side, we eventually found someone who was willing to join us in the second time.

It was a completely different experience this time around. I felt so powerful and so in control. When Vickie joined into the group, I had never seen her so aroused and ready to go. Later on, she assured me she had enjoyed watching even more than joining in.

Ever since, we have tried to add in a threesome to the mix as much as possible. This is not something that we are able to do every time. Finding a partner who is willing to do a threesome with a married couple is not always possible and it can take some time to get this all set up.

And Vickie and I still enjoy just having sex on our own as well. It adds some spice to the whole relationship when we have to wait for this experience to happen again.

A Special Event

Usually we make the threesome a kind of special event. We might go for a few months, sometimes even a year before we decide to make a change.

As I said, we both love each other and have no issues with having sex together, and we do it often. But when it is time to get into the search for someone to join in on our sex, it becomes a kind of adventure.

We first have to figure out where to find a partner. Sometimes we get lucky by going to a local club or another outing.

The first one who is able to find someone to bring home is like the winner, although being on either side of the threesome can be a great experience. We try to keep it pretty even both ways, but sometimes you just go the way that you can.

Once we find someone, we decide when to have the sex. Sometimes we are spur of the moment and will go home right then and there.

Sometimes we will take it slow and make it more romantic and set up a time with the candlelight and all that jazz. Each experience is a little bit different which adds to the excitement and arousal that we feel together as a couple.

We Are So In Love But People Don’t Understand Why We Do It

Some people may not understand what is going on with this experience. They may assume that Vickie and I no longer love each other or that we never loved each other. But this is simple not the case.

In fact, it is because we love each other so much that we want to give each other this great experience and grow our love even more.

It is a way for us to grow in love together more and more, give each other pleasure that is not possible without adding someone in, and a way to express ourselves outside the relationship. The threesome is one of our favorite relationship assets that is not going anywhere!

Plus we also plan on venturing into the world of swinging if we can find people around our age, the last time we tried a swingers club we were shocked to see everyone in their late fifties and sixties, so we made our excuses and left.

But I have been doing a good bit of research on this, and I have found a Hedonism II club in Jamaica that is all about hooking up for sex like threesomes foursomes and orgies, which looks fantastic, so we are going to book that up this year and try it out. If all goes well we will book it every year and come back here and write about it.

 

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